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"30 Days of Kink"

Day 1: How do you label yourself, and why? What interests you about BDSM/kink? What does BDSM mean to you, personally? ⇝Answer

Day 2: If you could only indulge one kink, what would it be and why? ⇝Answer

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? ⇝Answer

Day 4: Did you have any early experiences that, in retrospect, hinted at your kink? ⇝Answer

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven't had one yet, write about fantasy. ⇝Answer⇜

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. ⇝Answer⇜

Day 7: What's your favorite sex toy? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 8: Find a kinky image that you find erotic. Why does it appeal to you? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 9: Is there a kink related song you enjoy? What is it and why does it speak to you? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 10: What are your hand limits? Why are these hard limits? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 12: Write about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you've had. If you haven't had one, write about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny. ⇝Answer⇜

Day 13: Why do you think BDSM.kink appeals to you? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 14: In your experience, how does real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven't experienced real life BDSM.kink how do you think it might differ? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 15: What is a BDSM/kink activity you're curious about and would like to try? Do you know anyone that can help you explore this? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you like to clear up? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 18: Do you have any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 19: Can you think of some ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 20: Write about something within kink/BDSM that you're curious about/don't understand. ⇝Answer⇜

Day 21: If you could recommended one BDSM/kink related book to a newcomer, what would it be and why? (Fiction or non-fiction) ⇝Answer⇜

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM/kink relationship healthy? What differences and similarities do you see in a kink relationship and a vanilla relationship. ⇝Answer⇜

Day 23: How was your sexuality evolved since you first developed an interest in kink? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 25: Are you open about your kinks, or are you "in the closet"? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 26: What do you think of on-line based BDSM/kink? Would you be involved in an on-line relationship? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 27: Do you combine vanilla life with your kinky interests, or do you keep them in separate spheres? Why? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 28: Do you have a specific manner of dress for BDSM/kink activities? What significance does your attire have to you? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (eg. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma'am, sir)? Why do you use that title? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 30: Write a letter to your future kink self. What lessons are you learning now that you don't want to forget? ⇝Answer⇜

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