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#1: Perception

Day # 1 of "30 Days of Kink"

How do you label yourself, and why? What interests you about BDSM/kink? What does BDSM mean to you, personally?

The label that I personally identify with is a Alpha Submissive. For me, that means that I don't bow to just any man. I am still the boss and I call the shots until the Alpha comes to play. I will allow him to call the shots if he has earned the title. I can sense a lack of authority in a male figure and their ability to control a situation. The guys who lack the control are the ones who don't last too long trying to get involved with me.  

My interests in BDSM revolve around the vulnerability and trust that is given to the partner. You have to be a very open person to let someone take all of your control. The passion that goes into this life makes me more confident in my ability to have a open, honest, and fun relationship without being afraid of expressing myself because my partner will have seen me at my most raw moments. 

That raw experience makes me feeling like I can be unfiltered and open to the world. Which is why I began this blog in the first place. I don't like being scared of showing who I am. It's not good to wondering if I will disappoint someone for my beliefs and lifestyle. This lifestyle is non-judgmental to anyone who wants to participate. Everyone I have met has been very patient, helpful, and just pleasant to interact with. Which is something i can't say for a lot of people outside of these interactions.


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"30 Days of Kink"

Reference: A Lady and Her Knight
Day 1: How do you label yourself, and why? What interests you about BDSM/kink? What does BDSM mean to you, personally? ⇝Answer

Day 2: If you could only indulge one kink, what would it be and why? ⇝Answer

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? ⇝Answer

Day 4: Did you have any early experiences that, in retrospect, hinted at your kink? ⇝Answer

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven't had one yet, write about fantasy. ⇝Answer⇜

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. ⇝Answer⇜

Day 7: What's your favorite sex toy? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 8: Find a kinky image that you find erotic. Why does it appeal to you? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 9: Is there a kink related song you enjoy? What is it and why does it speak to you? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 10: What are your hand limits? Why are these hard limits? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink? ⇝Answer⇜

Day 12: Write about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you've had. If you ha…